I'd like to re-arrange the links in non-alphabetical order.

So far I haven't been successfull so I had to put numbers in front of the links:

http://vision4ourcities.com/lam/

Thank you guys!!!! :D

Why are you using the LINKs for your menu in the sidebar and not the Pages widget?

The LINKS widget is part of Wordpress not Atahualpa. You might be able to find another plugin that will allow you to change the order that the items show up