Creating a home page that is a page

Really do apreciate you responding but I'm afraid I mustn't have been clear. What I've been searching for is where to find the ...
"4) At Atahualpa Theme Options -> Page Menu Bar, " to "delete the "Home" from "Home link in Page Menu Bar" "
... I've searched the THEME OPTIONS page and can find only the 'yes/no' toggle to include the menu, but nothing that allows the described change.
Also, with...
"5) At Site Admin -> Pages, click on all pages and watch the menu tab "Attributes" on the right side. "
... When I used to open my WordPress, I had a Site Admin link that would allow me to see attributes, etc. Now, since upgrading to WordPress 2.7.1, I can not find that Site Admin link and the only way I have to affect changes is through the side menu for settings. I've posted a screenshot so you can see what I mean, or perhaps describe where to find that option... if you would be so kind (?) Thanks again, Witchypoo<|: )