My wife says we should have them too! lol
A good example of the friend's blog may be viewed at http://ruitfarm.wordpress.com/2010/0...rsimmon-twist/
After much reading I've figured out how to insert
"%comments-rss('linktext')% - Displays the comment feed link for a post, with linktext as the link text. "in a post's footer, but NOT the "new posts" signup and definitely not with the checkboxes.
I'm thinking there must be a plugin at work but I can't figure it out. Our friend doesn't know how she's doing it -- she thinks it just came with her theme.